Couples Work · Four-Month Journey

Couples Intimacy. Reconnect to the eros between you.

You may still love each other deeply and miss feeling close. This journey is an invitation to understand what stands between you, rediscover pleasure and affection, and create a relationship where more of who you are can be welcomed.

Book an Intro Call → See the journey

Based in Los Angeles · Virtual sessions anywhere · Live sessions in LA

A couple resting cheek to cheek in warm low light
Duration
4 months
Sessions
About 10 private 90-minute sessions on Zoom
Rhythm
Weekly, then every other week
To begin
A free intro call together

Embodied Intimacy

A deeper way of meeting each other.

How you meet in pleasure, how you listen, and how you make room for emotion.

Through awareness of breath, sensation, and the energy you experience between you, we explore what it means to be fully present with one another.

For couples who long for a shared spiritual experience, intimacy can become a place of devotion, wonder, and profound connection. We explore meeting one another with fresh curiosity, even within a familiar relationship, and allowing tenderness, play, and passion to coexist. We make space for your longing for desire, pleasure, attraction, and freedom, alongside the communication and emotional connection that support your life together.

The Four-Month Journey

Foundation. Exploration. Integration.

The practices are adapted to your needs and readiness, with space to pause, reflect, and integrate.

Month One

Foundation & Discovery

Weekly sessions

We begin with the relationship you have built: its history, strengths, longings, and tender places.

We explore trust, unresolved hurt, communication, desire, and the roles that may be shaping your connection. Both partners have room to be heard.

Practices may include

  • Arriving together. Sitting face to face, letting your breathing settle, and each finishing the sentence “Right now, I notice…”
  • Speaking and being heard. One appreciation, one thing you miss, and one hope, with the listener reflecting back before responding
  • Permission and choice. Practicing small requests, and receiving a yes, a no, or “I would prefer something different” without persuasion

Month Two

Pleasure, Presence & Play

Sessions every other week

We move more deeply into practice, exploring how each of you experiences affection, desire, and pleasure.

We make room for different rhythms and bring curiosity to the pressure to perform, please, or get things right. Enjoyment, hesitation, tenderness, and resistance are all things we can talk about and learn from together.

Practices may include

  • Attentive touch. Asking, giving, and receiving simple touch, with feedback on pace and pressure and no expectation that it leads to sex
  • Breath and sensation. Returning to your own experience and sharing what helps you feel present
  • Polarity and play. Taking turns initiating and receiving, with initiative and receptivity available to either partner
  • Devotion. Offering unhurried attention and appreciation for who your partner is beyond their responsibilities

Month Three

Living the Changes

Sessions every other week

We explore the identity of the relationship you are creating.

What are you ready to stop repeating? What do you want to practice more deliberately? We revisit desire, trust, and communication as they show up in everyday life.

Practices may include

  • Returning after distance. Each person names what happened for them, their own part, and one clear request
  • An intimacy menu. A shared, flexible list of the ways you each enjoy connecting, where an earlier yes never creates an obligation

Month Four

Deepening & Completion

Sessions every other week

We strengthen the practices that feel sustainable and revisit what still needs attention.

Together we name what has changed and what you want to keep cultivating as partners and lovers. You create three relationship commitments you both choose, and close with a shared reflection: what I understand about you now, what I am taking responsibility for, and what I want us to keep exploring.

Intimacy remains an ongoing practice. Completion is a shared review of your readiness to continue.

Depth, Desire & Devotion

Themes we explore throughout.

Meeting what has been difficult to name

Room to speak about shame, guilt, fear, pressure to perform, and the feeling of not being enough. You may long to feel more confident as a lover, more at home in your body, or more able to receive pleasure. We explore how to communicate those longings and support one another without taking responsibility for fixing each other.

Sacred connection & shared pleasure

For those who resonate with it, intimacy can hold a spiritual dimension of reverence, gratitude, and meeting the deeper person within your partner. Slowing down and communicating what feels welcome creates room to discover each other anew. We ask what pleasure means to you, rather than assuming based on gender or roles.

Presence, surrender & authentic expression

Presence is staying attentive to yourself and your partner. Surrender is a freely chosen softening, with your voice and boundaries intact. If masculine and feminine qualities feel meaningful to you, we can invite them into movement, ritual, and play, and both partners can explore initiative, receptivity, strength, and tenderness.

Commitment & Rhythm

Making space for the work.

Bring honesty, curiosity, and a willingness to look at your own patterns. We begin with what is true for each of you.

Your commitment

  • Attend together from a comfortable, private space where you can settle in with minimal interruptions.
  • Practice between sessions with a weekly attunement to intimacy, guided by what you both need.
  • Bring your real experience: what worked, what felt awkward, and what you avoided.
  • Respect choice. Every exercise is an invitation. Either partner may pause, decline, or ask for an adjustment. Participation never requires sexual contact.
  • Take responsibility, and make room for your partner to have a different experience.

Session rhythm

Session length
90 minutes, together
Month one
Once a week
Months two, three & four
Every other week
Sessions across four months
About 10

We shape the rhythm around your relationship and talk through all the details on your intro call.

Inquire with an Intro Call

Zoom practices are clothed and non-explicit. Private intimacy is explored through conversation and mutually agreed home practice.

Begin

Begin together. Rediscover each other.

Book a free 45-minute intro call together. We'll talk about where your relationship is, what you long for, and whether this journey is right for you both.

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